My girlfriend and I have been dating only 8 months, but lately our relationship has started diwndling. We want to have a God-centered relationship and love each other, but we feel like their is a growing distance between us. Any biblical advice on how to repair our relationship?
Yes, first thing you need to do is Pray. Both of you should pray together. Maybe you are growing apart because you are not putting God first in your lives. God wants to be FIRST! If you put HIM first, everything will be blessed.
I’m a born again follower of Christ looking for advice on a failing relationship?
September 13, 2009 By 21 Comments
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work on the relationship yourself. looking into t he sky for something to fix it will only get you disappointed. you have a brain and common sense (i think). use it.
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buy her a crucifix-dildo
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Numbers 11:1 And when the people complained, it displeased the LORD: and the LORD heard it; and his anger was kindled; and the fire of the LORD burnt among them, and consumed them that were in the uttermost parts of the camp.
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Maybe one of you is losing interest?
Pray, talk to a good counselor, be ready for the truth.
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God in the center, huh? That must be what’s keeping you apart.
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Yes, first thing you need to do is Pray. Both of you should pray together. Maybe you are growing apart because you are not putting God first in your lives. God wants to be FIRST! If you put HIM first, everything will be blessed.
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I have had the same problem before, I think yall should each seperately become close with god again before yall can have a christ centered relationship.
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Maybe God is telling you that you are not meant for each other.
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Been there and through that delima
If your relationship is dwindling, it probably means she’s bored (or you’re bored). You need to jazz it up a little. The two of you should probably focus a bit more on your sensuality and a bit less on your spirituality.
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Christians have the highest divorce rate in the country and atheists the lowest so get rid of your bronze age mythology and things should improve.
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8 months is the common make it or break it point of a relationship. If you 2 seem to be drifting, then its not meant to be. Let it go.
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I’d recommend praying the rosary regularly. Mary is the Queen of Peace, and can fix a troubled relationship.
The rosary is explained here:
http://www.ewtn.com/Devotionals/prayers/rosary/how_to.htm
The fifteen promises of Mary to Christians who recite the rosary:
1. Whoever shall faithfully serve me by the recitation of the Rosary shall receive signal graces.
2. I promise my special protection and the greatest graces to all those who shall recite the Rosary.
3. The Rosary shall be a powerful armor against Hell, it will destroy vice, decrease sin, and defeat heresies.
4. It will cause virtue and good works to flourish; it will obtain for souls the abundant mercy of God; it will withdraw the hearts of men from the love of the world and its vanities and will lift them to the desire of eternal things. Oh, that souls would sanctify themselves by this means.
5. The soul which recommends itself to me by the recitation of the Rosary, shall not perish.
6. Whoever shall recite the Rosary devoutly, applying himself to the consideration of its sacred mysteries, shall never be conquered by misfortune. God will not chastise him in His justice, he shall not perish by an unprovided death; if he be just, he shall remain in the grace of God and become worthy of eternal life.
7. Whoever shall have a true devotion for the Rosary shall not die without the Sacraments of the Church.
8. Those who are faithful to recite the Rosary shall have during their life and at their death the light of God and the plenitude of His graces; at the moment of death, they shall participate in the merits of the saints in Paradise.
9. I shall deliver from Purgatory those who have been devoted to the Rosary.
10. The faithful children of the Rosary shall merit a high degree of glory in Heaven.
11. You shall obtain all you ask of me by the recitation of the Rosary.
12. All those who propagate the Holy Rosary shall be aided by me in their necessities.
13. I have obtained from my Divine Son that all the advocates of the Rosary shall have for intercessors the entire Celestial Court during their life and at the hour of death.
14. All who recite the Rosary are my sons, and brothers of my only Son, Jesus Christ.
15. Devotion to my Rosary is a great sign of predestination.
God bless!
Dave
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God makes it "rain on both, the righteous and the unrighteous". Life happens and God might be telling you and her "NO GO". Remember; it is not MY will be done – but THY will be done.
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ya stop reading the bible and do what you DEEP DOWN want to do
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Things are not the same when you are not married.
Spend time in romance, joint bliever prasise and prayer with good gospel music that is biblically centered.
The cares of this world choke these effforts if we allow that.
More affection in romance, kindness, godly joy should increase your ministries and love for one another.
If you do marry and are certain then all the effrost are more worthwhile.
The bible on tape will help you hear and understand more of the bible and much faster while replacing worldly time that amounts to little.
Strive and pray for more godly imes, sharing the word and planning your futures too.
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I went through the same thing. This is what helped me.
I prayed
Lord you gave them to me. Now I give them back to you. Fix us Lord.
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I understand that your trying to be faithful and everything but maybe she just isn’t the one for you.Maybe this is gods way of letting you know that there is some other plan for you.
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Since you are born again, God’s Holy Spirit communicates God’s feelings about situations in your life and how you are supposed to handle them.
This growing distance you are experiencing may be the Holy Spirit nudging you along toward a permanent separation from someone who is not meant to be your partner in life. Does your girlfriend claim to be a born again Christian? If so, does it show up in her daily life?
Express your concerns to Jesus and let Him handle it for you.
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Biblical advice is probably not what you are looking for… since everyone seems to interpret it differently. That’s why there are so many different churches all calling themselves Christian. When Christ said "Wherever two or more of you are gathered in my name." … He was referring to Adversity (because of his opposition to traditional Jewish values). Putting God first in Your Life is Good… but trying to use God as the glue for anything else simply doesn’t work… Try sex toys.
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Pray to God and ask him to help you. Talk to your girlfriend and see if she feels like the relationship is dwindling as well. Be honest with each other and talk about what you are feeling. Truthful and meaningful conversation is often what is needed to repair a relationship. If you keep you feelings to yourself, or keep going to others, it wont solve anything. Go to your girlfriend and talk to her. May God Bless You.
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Sit down and talk! ill put my house on it that you guys are drifting because you are not talking! Have a heart to heart tell her whats going on in your heart and let her tell you whats going on in her heart! Ask the tough questions? Do you see each other as potential husband and wife? If not end it right there. Are you just sticking together because you dont want to hurt the other person if so get out pain will occur eventually!
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